The Asking Nicely Social Story is a free, printable PDF resource created to help children learn how to ask for things in a calm, polite, and respectful way. Using clear language and simple illustrations, this social story teaches the importance of using kind words, gentle voices, and patience when making requests.
This story is especially helpful for children with autism, ADHD, learning difficulties, or social communication challenges, as it models positive behaviour and helps children understand the link between asking nicely and getting positive responses.
This social story teaches children to:
Use polite words like “please,” “thank you,” and “excuse me”
Speak in a calm and gentle voice when asking for help or turns
Understand that shouting, grabbing, or demanding can upset others
Stay calm even if the answer is “no” and try again later
Recognise that asking nicely builds good relationships and respect
Ideal for use in:
Home settings – parents and carers supporting communication and manners
Classrooms – to teach polite language, turn-taking, and emotional regulation
Therapy or social work sessions – to promote positive social interactions and behaviour skills
Autism and SEND support – visual learning for children who benefit from structure and repetition
This easy-to-read story encourages children to use positive communication and emotional control in daily life, supporting social understanding, empathy, and confidence.
This is a gentle and engaging way to teach kids how to ask for help or things politely. Perfect for parents, teachers, therapists, and social workers supporting children’s social skills and emotional development.
