Family Court Through the Eyes of Children: A Workbook for Children whose Families Have Gone to Court due to Family Violence

Family Court Through the Eyes of Children A Workbook for Children whose Families Have Gone to Court due to Family ViolenceThis workbook, Family Court Through the Eyes of Children, is a supportive resource designed to help children understand and cope with the challenges of family violence and the legal processes involved. Written by Lindy Swimm, MAE, LCSW, it uses the story of Katie, a teenager navigating family violence and court-ordered arrangements, to guide children through the emotional and practical aspects of dealing with court cases.

The workbook provides age-appropriate explanations of court processes, safety planning tips, and activities that encourage children to express their feelings and build resilience. It emphasizes that children are not to blame for family problems and encourages open communication in a safe and supportive way.

How Can Social Workers and Other Professionals Use This Resource?

  • Explain Court Processes: Use the workbook to help children understand what happens during court proceedings, including protective orders and custody decisions.
  • Support Emotional Expression: Guide children through activities that help them process feelings of fear, sadness, or confusion about family changes.
  • Encourage Safety Planning: Teach children practical steps to stay safe, including identifying trusted adults, knowing emergency contacts, and creating a personal safety plan.
  • Build Coping Skills: Help children develop strategies to handle stress, such as visualization exercises, breathing techniques, and imagining safe spaces.

This workbook is a valuable tool for social workers, counselors, and educators working with children affected by domestic violence and legal disputes. It provides clear, child-friendly guidance to support healing and resilience during difficult times.

Click below to access Family Court Through the Eyes of Children and incorporate it into your support sessions.

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Explaining Decisions Made by the Family Court to Children

This guide, created by Cafcass England, provides parents and carers with practical advice for explaining Family Court decisions to children. It emphasises the importance of clear, age-appropriate communication to help children understand decisions affecting their lives, while reassuring them that it is not their fault. The guide offers tips for starting conversations, addressing questions, and maintaining a calm and supportive approach. It also provides examples of how to simplify legal language and tailor explanations to children’s needs, helping families navigate this challenging process with empathy and understanding.

Explaining Decisions Made by the Family Court to Children