Lying and Telling the Truth is a free social story designed to help kids understand what lying means, why it happens, and why telling the truth is important. Using simple language and relatable examples, this story supports children in recognising honest behaviour, managing difficult feelings, and learning to take responsibility.
This resource is especially helpful for autistic children, children with learning difficulties, and those who need support with social understanding and emotional regulation.
What’s Inside This Social Story About Lying?
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What is a lie? – Explains that lying means saying something that is not true or did not happen.
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Why children might lie – Gives an example of feeling worried or scared after making a mistake, and how that can lead to lying.
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How lying affects others – Shows that lying can confuse or upset people and make them trust you less.
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Why honesty matters – Reassures children that it is okay to make mistakes and that telling the truth helps adults support them.
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Helpful language – Encourages phrases like “I’m sorry” or “I made a mistake” to show honesty.
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Positive reinforcement – Reminds children that telling the truth helps them feel safe, builds trust, and shows they are learning and growing.
How Can the Resource Be Used Practically?
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At home with parents and carers – A helpful story to read after a situation where a child may have lied, offering a gentle way to talk about truth-telling.
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In classrooms or early years settings – Can be included in social-emotional learning (SEL) lessons or used as a behaviour support tool.
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For autistic children – A structured, visual way to explore why honesty is important, written in an autism-friendly format.
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In therapy or social skills sessions – Useful for social workers, therapists, and SEN professionals supporting children in developing self-awareness and communication skills.
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As a visual support or routine reminder – Keep a printed copy where children can read it regularly to help build understanding and confidence in telling the truth.
This lying social story is a valuable tool to help children learn about honesty, trust, and emotional growth. It supports them in making better choices and helps build respectful, trusting relationships with others.
